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Not a good start

One of my best friends in the world just texted me to say he's back in the hospital with probable congestive heart failure. He's so far away and there isn't a damn thing I can do for him. I am so worried for him I can barely think straight.


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May. 13th, 2010 05:25 pm (UTC)
I will hope for the best for him and for you. I know how frustrating it can be to be far away and helpless at a time like that.
May. 13th, 2010 05:28 pm (UTC)
*hugs* I'm worried too.
May. 13th, 2010 05:50 pm (UTC)
It's scary, but it's durable. People wonder why I prefer to hear 'stable' over 'good' - here's the reason.

Text back - I'm sure you have - and let them do the dance. Keep your hands busy when your heart is heavy - the time has to pass, and it will. This is one of those that just doesn't resolve quickly - and it is frustration over insult not to be right there when you want to be. I know - and I am so sorry.
May. 13th, 2010 05:54 pm (UTC)
Sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you and your friend.
May. 13th, 2010 06:14 pm (UTC)
*hugs tight*

Keeping both of you close in my thoughts.
May. 13th, 2010 06:20 pm (UTC)
Hugs for you, best wishes for him.
May. 13th, 2010 07:21 pm (UTC)
Mucho prayers for both of you. If you need anything, need to get, whatever, our door is open.
May. 13th, 2010 07:43 pm (UTC)
I'm sorry to hear that. :-(

Best wishes to the both of you.
May. 13th, 2010 08:08 pm (UTC)
Helpless waiting is the worst. Thinking of you, and your friend.
May. 13th, 2010 08:42 pm (UTC)
I'm sorry to hear this J., I hope everything works out the way you want it too.
May. 13th, 2010 09:02 pm (UTC)
I hope your friend comes through this okay.

It's hard to be far away from people who need us when they need us most... and it's hardest of all when they need us to be their rock when everything else in the world is heaving in chaos around them. The best you can do for your friend, right now, is to stay the calm and quiet center for him, the place where his spirit comes to rest.

Good thoughts for you both...
May. 13th, 2010 09:58 pm (UTC)
Good thoughts heading out :-)
May. 13th, 2010 10:35 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry - good thoughts held for you all.
May. 14th, 2010 06:59 am (UTC)
I am so sorry *hugs* my thought are with you both
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